Monday, 23 February 2009

Its all good now

So as I was saying, I had typhoid. It was an interesting experience. I have never been so sick in my life. A friend of mine had just mentioned in December that I looked strong and fit and muscular. Well ah. Its all gone. I look sick. There are no two ways to look at it. Normally, despite my friend thinking thus, my family always think I look a bit 'weak' as they call it. No matter that I can run and run and do a hundred things through the day and physically it is a stretch to call me 'weak' - they think I am. It also has to do with the head-thing. In my head, I mean, in terms of emotions, tears-on-tap, ability to casually let all life's vicissitudes slide across you, I don't too well. I am too emtionally invested in things. I work from the heart. Therefore I am obviously weaker than a person who uses their brain.

Right now at any rate, I am physically still recuperating. Mornings don't feel very good. I struggle to get started with the day. I feel uneasy in the evenings. But I am somewhat ready to start my work day (yes, I have had to be on leave - I feverishly taught two classes ten days ago and am dreading going back and figuring out what it was I said in those). In my absence, has the world shattered? I will know tomorrow. I am determined more than ever to simplify things at work and focus on important matters and finish them. One of my 2009 resolutions in any case.

There is a four day period in the past few weeks of which I have limited memory. I know my face was so uninspiring that my husband could not go to work. I am real glad about that because I never expected it. He barely even manages to stay home when he is sick. He claims I ate nothing those days (which cannot be true). I remember eating though, our usual meal of dhal. The fever refused to come down. The blood report was not yet there so we were hoping it was typhoid and treating it as such but no one knew. I was lying in bed mostly trying to figure out the headache, which was a constant presence.

Now that I have several more moments of lucidity, and only some discomfort, I feel as if I have come out of a tunnel or some sort. And that I am still in the last stretches of that tunnel. Dark, dreary tunnel of pain, mostly the head. I have nearly fainted in the hospital (strange, people still talk to you though you cannot see them, at least you cannot see their outline. Apparently, you cannot tell when another person is going to faint). I was at the reception and I tried to tell that girl. At least I remember it was a girl, before the fainting spell began, she was a girl. After that she was a blue haze. I wanted water. I was surrounded by men with their little children. I was afraid of crushing a child. I made it without incident to a chair and my husband saw me and I was sweating and he got me water. My body has ached like no other time before. Every single bone and pore ached. There was no position I could sleep or sit in that worked. But I did not faint again. The doctor threatened to admit me and I could see my husband was tempted but I got up and walked out saying we will think of that in three days time (hate hospitals).

It is time to forget it and move on. Time to regain my strength, which I have lost in buckets. Time to build my muscles, which have gone away very quickly, damn them. Time to appreciate how even the simplest of foods taste SO MUCH BETTER when mum makes them than the cook. I am a lucky girl. My husband actually, unbelievably, was here when I needed him most (somehow, he always is). The child was broadly co-operative as I was lying there and complaining about real and imagined noises. Mum could come over day before yesterday which is more than anything anyone can ask for. Time to count my lucky stars.

And meanwhile, we have a vegetable patch in our garden. Bhindi, Brinjal, Dhania, Chili, Beans and Tomatoes. Bhindis are the oldest and going well.

8 comments:

choxbox said...

mom around? you'll get well before you know it.

btw relapses happen so take care - you'd know it but still saying.

csm said...

welcome back kbpm.
quite a rough ride, eh.
great to see your positives listing through all this.
atta-girl :-)
great to hear the garden patch going well.
try to beat this. food cooked by mom with veggies grown in the back yard.

Space Bar said...

Shit on toast! How on earth did you get typhoid?! And kindly avoid muscle-building right away, yes?

Jeevan Baretto said...

Great to see you back! Wish to start running very soon.

kbpm said...

sb thats the mystery. i am so over-cautious to the point of people laughing at me and comparing me to SRK in swades. ironical.

chox. yeah. mum is a miracle worker seriously. wonder what that relapse means. scary thinking of it!

csm. always the positives! we already had this chutney she made from our kadi pattha. just awesome.

jdb. i think i have a while to go for running. month or two at least. :-(

asaaan said...

I'm glad you are on the road to recovery. Take it easy the first few days.

Parul said...

Virtual flowers coming your way. Sounds like the kind of interesting life experience that one should avoid at all costs. No encores now. Lean on thy mother and get running soon.

dipali said...

Dear Kenny- three months of minimum exertion. And the lightest possible, low roughage diet. I don't think my attack was anywhere near as severe as yours, and that seemed bad enough to me! Please take very good care of yourself. I'm glad that your husband was around when most needed,and now your mom. Hope the monster wasn't too discomfited by her mommy being so ill.