tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271469593304696364.post6021408609424212815..comments2023-08-07T16:43:34.477+05:30Comments on the blog formerly known as musings from mumbai: A birth...Preeti Aghalayam aka kbpmhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11829919187093167561noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271469593304696364.post-75124686704246198332007-04-20T16:15:00.000+05:302007-04-20T16:15:00.000+05:30csm: traumatic is the mot juste. The path to self-...csm: traumatic is the mot juste. The path to self-actualization seems almost dehumanizing, i mean you have to insulate yourself from everything that makes us us.<BR/><BR/>kenny: i have heard, and to a certain extent practised the me-first approach recently. and it does work. one can get cornered if everyone else is appeased all the time. <BR/><BR/>ludwig: what is cybdnxti? i thought it was short SrgntPepperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15255942324575734163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271469593304696364.post-70067129429744001322007-04-19T10:10:00.000+05:302007-04-19T10:10:00.000+05:30csm - surely fiction based in some form of reality...csm - surely fiction based in some form of reality but leaps from there too. in my mind its fiction, so it must be so!! :-)Preeti Aghalayam aka kbpmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11829919187093167561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271469593304696364.post-31975936860086978092007-04-18T22:33:00.000+05:302007-04-18T22:33:00.000+05:30"Love. Like her name says."fictional, eh...??agree..."Love. Like her name says."<BR/>fictional, eh...??<BR/><BR/>agree with kenny on the 'do it for oneself'. thats the truth. for sure. it takes saints to be able to get thereabouts. it will take others who are immersed in daily life many lifetimes perhaps.<BR/>but that should not become "then why bother?". precisely why to bother.csmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11557461643577046017noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271469593304696364.post-34721668717192748942007-04-18T09:50:00.000+05:302007-04-18T09:50:00.000+05:30well, i dont know if its possible to replace every...well, i dont know if its possible to replace everyday hate, angst, frustration, disillusionment, and so on with love, but it might be worth a shot. <BR/>what i feel is at the strongest emotion one can feel is for oneself; and to feel that way is not selfish, its good. <BR/>even in the relationships we have with others, imho, we come first, the other person next. this is the truth. and its fine. Preeti Aghalayam aka kbpmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11829919187093167561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271469593304696364.post-38642329187800937022007-04-18T09:37:00.000+05:302007-04-18T09:37:00.000+05:30captain pepper - the cliche goes "nothing easy is ...captain pepper - the cliche goes "nothing easy is worth having".<BR/><BR/>it is really possible to be self-actualised. it looks so difficult and traumatic that people do not even try. one may never attain that state, but the attempts are what really matter.csmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11557461643577046017noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271469593304696364.post-58164852630675492402007-04-16T12:21:00.000+05:302007-04-16T12:21:00.000+05:30Isn't this very difficult to implement? ultimately...Isn't this very difficult to implement? ultimately the ephemeral things/people are the ones we love and care about the most. And to care, but truly not want anything in return would make us self-acutalized or realized or whatever. is it really possible to get to that state?SrgntPepperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15255942324575734163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271469593304696364.post-40808767092527349252007-04-11T10:07:00.000+05:302007-04-11T10:07:00.000+05:30:)cybdnxti: A naughty word in Swahili, whose meani...:)<BR/><BR/>cybdnxti: A naughty word in Swahili, whose meaning we cannot reveal here.Ludwighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03710107146505111876noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271469593304696364.post-87172621239678927932007-04-11T09:03:00.000+05:302007-04-11T09:03:00.000+05:30service with love is true path.service with love is true path.csmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11557461643577046017noreply@blogger.com